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Today, we went out to shop and stroll at Meijer Mall at 13 Mile, Roseville. We bought some groceries and the pumpkin. We put pumpkin decoration in our glass window so people who pass by our house will see it. My hubby made a scary pumpkin for display in the living room. I helped him to put away the seeds. We can cook them to eat later. We will keep some so we can start planting it inside the house come spring. We are going to buy planting pots so it will be ready for next year. Every night we’re going to put a candle inside the pumpkin to make it really scary. My little one likes it though she doesn’t appreciate yet the real meaning of it. Times goes quickly, last year I was amazed how big the pumpkin was. I’m very excited to learn how to make a jack-a-lantern. Now, it’s my second year I still love it and its so much fun. Anyway, Happy Halloween!
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As a woman having a garden was absolutely wonderful. The refreshment and happiness brought by gardening was terrific. This year of spring season, I was inspired of putting a flower garden in front of my porch and backyard. My husband and I went to shop at Home Depot located at 13 Mile, Roseville. We bought different variety of flowers and vegetable plants, top soil, insect powder and fence. I was so excited and couldn’t wait to dig the soil at that time. My little one had so much fun digging and shoveling soil. My hubby started planting the vegetables like cherry tomato, eggplant, cabbage, beans, bell pepper, lettuce and acorn squash. The garden was small so we just bought a few plants of veggies. The digging was hard to make the soil ready, and then we put fertilizer on it. He fixed the fence properly so rodents wouldn’t eat our plants. Then, I planted the flowers. I got old bricks from our garage that was used as a border for the flowers to avoid weeds. Since the month of May until now, our flowers bloomed beautifully. We ate all the fresh vegetables from our garden. I can tell the freshness of veggies from our garden to the ones that we usually buy in the market. The taste was good and it’s delicious. Right now its autumn season, the weather turning cold, the plants started to die. We picked all the excess vegetables from our garden even though it’s not yet ripe. My daughter had a small bucket, I let her pick it all and she enjoyed it. I put it all in a pan and will wait until it becomes ripe. So that’s the story of Rush Family spring season fun activity. See you next year because were planning to expand our garden and plant some more.




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This will be my second time to celebrate Halloween here in America. I’ve noticed residents here are fascinated of putting decorations on their houses. This month of October, malls are crowded. You can see shoppers all over and there’s a lot of traffic in the parking lot. In short, people are busy for the upcoming holiday. It’s like preparing for a huge party. Back home in my country, the Philippines some do it, while others do not. Those who do it will prepare their house for a family party. Some go out for bar hopping like in Makati and Malate, Manila. There’s a huge party all the way down the street. They have contest for the scariest costume that will be televised. However, the majorities of Filipino are in the cemetery with candles, flowers and even snack foods. The whole family and relatives are there and solemnly pray. In my family, we usually go to the cemetery. We don’t go for a party. It’s against the law of my clan. We have a strong culture of spending time to our love ones who passed away even if you live in a far away province. We’re going to travel ahead of time so there’s no hustle and bustle. I just missed it and I want to visit my brother’s grave. I want to see my whole family so we can light up the candles together. Sit down and talk. Since, it’s impossible for me to fly back to my country. I will buy a candle, light it up and pray.
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After my little princess pooped out, I cleaned the bathroom and spray the perfume all over. Oh, smells good! While busy cleaning the doorbell rang. My neighbor, Kelly and her 6 yr old daughter Sidney were outside. My hubby opened the door, Kelly asked if her daughter could play with my little one. We both agreed and the two lovely kids played inside Riona’s room. One of my problems here in America, especially in my place, children are not seen playing outside. It’s a bit odd for me, I don’t know my neighbors. It’s like they don’t want to be recognize. When I go outside, I seldom see people. Believe me, I can count those neighbors of mine who come out from their house on my fingers. Sometimes I can’t help myself from pitying my little princess because she doesn’t usually have playmates in our community. We bought her some toys, to get her attention and play along with her. Though it’s not yet enough, She really needs company same as her age. That’s why I’m happy every time my neighbor knock and bring along her daughter to play with my little one. So the two kids are happy and they both have fun playing together. I’m glad my daughter has company even for 30 minutes. I thought this year, I can bring her in Preparatory School so being alone will not be an issue. Unfortunately, she hasn’t reached the School birthday cut off. She must be 4 years old until December 1, 2008. Since her birthday is on December 21, she will wait for next year. It doesn’t sound good to me, she will be a little bit older to her classmates next year. But that’s the way it is, I need to follow School rules and regulations even though it’s unfair for my daughter. Right now, I am teaching her some Preparatory lectures. She knows how to recognize shapes and colors. She can count numbers from 1 to 20. She can sing the alphabet but not yet familiar with the letters itself. She can follow instructions. My hubby bought her a kiddy computer from leapfrog for her to be familiar in computer keys and their functions. It has programs for numbers, alphabets, colors and shapes. It’s a good learning tool for my toddler. I’ve noticed my daughter became smart and learn fast from it. Television is another tool that helps my daughter to become smarter. There are educational shows like Barney, world words, Mr. Roger’s neighborhood, Mickey Mouse playhouse, Backyardigans, Doodlebops, etc. I am very thankful, it’s a big help for a mom like me. I’m very happy my daughter is doing very well. I'm proud of her!
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This October was a difficult and unforgettable month for me. Last week, my family had a tough situation. A breathtaking moment for all of us which I wouldn’t want to happened again. Then, I got a shot for flu last day to make me healthy and prepared for the flu season. Honestly, that’s one of my weakness, the injection. It freaking hurts, I hate needles. Today, it’s my daughter’s vaccination appointment. Her pediatrician studied and summarized her vaccination record that she had before. Then, she came up with three due vaccines and one for flu so four shots total. I pity my little one for the shots that she got. She cried and whined so loud. I feel sorry for my princess hoping I can get all the shots for her so she will not be hurt. However, we need to be healthy and be ready for the coming winter so were not sick. Anyway, this month also is my first year here in America as well as my daughter. Time goes quickly and fast, I remembered I was whining to my hubby and wanted to go back home cause of being homesick, and then I overcame it. We were going to celebrate our first year wedding anniversary this month too. I’m happy that God still allowed and gave us a chance to celebrate it together. It’s overwhelming and we are blest. I am thankful for his kindness. It’s a double celebration for me though, same date were my brother passed away. My family back in the Philippines will visit my brother’s grave. I'm just waiting that immigration approve my change of status so I can finally visit him.
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Last week, my family battled in a very delicate situation. My husband was hospitalized because of a heart attack. There was a possibility that he might leave me alone in a glance. It’s kind of scary that certain things happen unexpectedly. My thought at that time was how will I handle this kind of situation independently. I’m afraid of how will I continue my life without him. I’m not yet ready for this kind of trial, nor prepared for a big bang. I just hold onto God and keep praying for our safety. Fortunately, God heard my prayers, he touched my hand. He saved me again in a difficult situation in my life. I’m glad that medical technology here in America is efficient and very effective. Now, He is safe and pretty well. I’m feeling better and can breathe normally. I’m so happy that things turned well. I want to thank my friends, Aira and Elizabeth, for offering their hands to help. Thank you guys and wish you have more blessings to come.
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Last year of 2001, I started smoking cigarettes. I was influenced by my friends, we went out for party every other night, go bar hopping until the dawn. Would you believe, I smoked that one pack of cigarette just a single night. Then, suddenly I had breathing problem. I can’t breathe normally. I visited our family doctor for check up and confessed about my addiction. Then, I followed what my doctor advised and stop smoking. Year 2003, though It's very hard, but I'm finally non-smoker. I’m proud of myself that I did it. Now, I'm clean and don't have any plan to try it again.


So I researched about it to help others to fight and quit smoking especially those people close to my heart. It's not yet late, you can still save your life. According to the American Heart Association, smoking cigarettes tops the list of major risk factors of our No. 1 killer, heart and blood vessel disease. In fact, almost one-fifth of deaths from heart disease are caused by smoking. The long list of diseases and deaths due to smoking is frightening. Smoking also harms thousands of nonsmokers who are exposed to cigarette smoke, including infants and children. If you smoke, you have a good reason to worry about its effect on your health, your loved ones and others. You could become one of the more than 430,000 smoking related deaths every year. When you quit, you reduce that risk tremendously! No matter how much or how long you've smoked, when you quit smoking, your risk of heart disease and stroke starts to drop. In time your risk will be about the same as if you'd never smoked! How do you quit? Thats the big question, Here’s the steps:



1. list your reasons to quit and read them several times a day. Wrap your cigarette pack with paper and rubber bands. Each time you smoke, write down the time of day, how you feel, and how important that cigarette is to you on a scale of 1 to 5. Rewrap the pack.
2. Keep reading your list of reasons and add to it if you can. Don’t carry matches, and keep your cigarettes out of easy reach. Each day, try to smoke fewer cigarettes, and try not to smoke the ones that aren’t most important.
3. Continue with step two. Set a target date to quit. Don’t buy a new pack until you finish the one you’re smoking. Change brands twice during the week, each time for a brand lower in a tar and nicotine. Try to stop for 48 hours at one time.
4. Quit smoking completely. Throw out all cigarettes and matches. Hide lighters and ashtrays. Stay busy! Go to the movies, exercise, take long walks, go bike riding. Avoid situations and “triggers” you relate with smoking. Find healthy substitutes for smoking. Carry sugarless gum or artificially sweetened mints. Munch carrots or celery sticks. Try doing crafts or other things with your hands. Do deep breathing exercises when you get the urge.



It's hard to stay a nonsmoker once you've had a cigarette, so do everything you can to avoid that "one." The urge to smoke will pass. The first 2 to 5 minutes will be the toughest. If you do smoke after quitting, this doesn't mean you're a smoker again. Do something now to get back on track. Don't punish or blame yourself, tell yourself you're still a nonsmoker. Think about why you smoked and decide what to do the next time it comes up. Sign a contract to stay a nonsmoker.



You know what will happen after you quit, your senses of smell and taste come back. Smoker's cough goes away. You will digest normally. You feel alive and full of energy. You breathe much easier. It's easier to climb stairs. You're free from the mess, smell and burns in clothing. You feel free of "needing" cigarettes. You'll live longer and have less chance of heart disease, stroke, lung disease and cancer.



If you want to learn more visit americanheart.org and StrokeAssociation.org.

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